Tips

A guy i didn’t know added me on facebook. Seeing that he is a friend of a friend, i thought i might have missed him out during my stint at the event. There are lots of people after all… so i added him. Only to find out that he didn’t participate. “Why did you add [...]

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Friendships: straight & gay

Having fixed roles for interactions between guys and gals got me into trouble a number of times. As a result of being gay, i don’t approach guys with the idea that they might think i like them. So i chat them up when i am curious about stuff [and i am frequently curious]. My girlfriend [...]

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Last minute changes

I am convinced that some last minute changes are created by God and serve to protect my ass. Not very PC… but you get the drift.

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Long Distance Relationships

My lamb flew off for 11 days. Just a short 11 days. And it made me think about long distance relationships [LDRs].You need an element of difficulty in access to each other before you qualify a relationship as LDR. And when i think of LDR, i consider not just geographical distances. If you see each [...]

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Missing you

I miss you more than i thought i would… and i thought i would miss you much. May your work trip be exceedingly fruitful.

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Marble Cake

Marble Cake I have been dancing like a muppet from Sesame Street because i baked on a Saturday when i have lots of other things to do. [What's new anymore?] This time round, it was thoroughly cooked. My resident supporter, Lamb, told me “你成功了!” and gamely ate some of it. I am still trying to [...]

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[Movie] Cats & Dogs

I feel sorry for Kitty Galore. Who turned wrinkly, furless and evil [what better combination] because a dog chased her and she landed into a barrel of chemicals. Rejected and thrown out by owners who didn’t like her furless look, she ended up in the hands of Chunk the magician… who is set to abuse [...]

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Love is Healthy & Creative

Sometimes i wonder why partners would lament, “If you can stomach that from your ex, why can’t you let me do the same?” The inevitable question that flows from this, “Don’t you love me more?” The answer is typically short and simple: I was naive. There are 2 ways to learn – by experience or [...]

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